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Why Regular Therapeutic Massage Can Be Such a Powerful Form of Self-Care

September 16, 2026 by Cary Skywalker

Many people think about getting a massage when something hurts or when they’re feeling especially stressed. And while therapeutic massage can absolutely be helpful when you’re dealing with tension, discomfort, or an overworked body, I believe there’s another way to look at massage: as regular care and maintenance for your whole self.

Our bodies are constantly adapting to everything we experience—how we sit, stand, work, exercise, sleep, move, breathe, carry stress, and even how we hold our emotions. Over time, all of that can show up in the body as tension, restriction, soreness, fatigue, or simply feeling like you’re not quite at home in yourself. Regular therapeutic massage gives you an opportunity to pause, listen to your body, and address some of those patterns before they become bigger problems.

Physical Benefits

Therapeutic massage can help reduce muscle tension and soreness, improve circulation, support flexibility and range of motion, and promote relaxation throughout the body. It can be especially beneficial for people who spend a lot of time sitting at a desk, working physically, exercising, dancing, traveling, or simply living in a body that gets a lot of use!

Regular sessions may help relieve or manage things like:

  • Neck, shoulder, and back tension

  • Muscle soreness and stiffness

  • Headaches and tension-related discomfort

  • Repetitive-use and overuse patterns

  • Limited mobility or range of motion

  • Postural tension

  • General aches and pains

  • Stress-related physical tension

Massage can also be a wonderful complement to other forms of healthcare and wellness care. It isn't a replacement for medical treatment when medical treatment is needed, but it can be one valuable piece of a larger approach to taking care of yourself.

Mental & Emotional Benefits

And then there’s the part that can be harder to measure—but that I hear about from clients all the time.

When the body gets an opportunity to soften, the mind often gets a chance to slow down too.

Taking an hour (or more) to step away from your responsibilities and receive care can create a much-needed interruption in the constant doing of everyday life. Massage may help reduce feelings of stress and overwhelm, encourage deeper relaxation, support restful sleep, and give you space to reconnect with yourself.

For some people, receiving therapeutic touch also provides a sense of grounding and embodiment—a chance to get out of their heads and back into their bodies. And when we spend so much of our lives thinking, working, worrying, planning, and taking care of everyone else, that can be a pretty powerful thing.

Why Regular Sessions?

One of the biggest benefits of receiving massage regularly is that you don't necessarily have to wait until your body is screaming for attention.

Regular sessions can help you become more aware of where you hold tension, what your body needs, and the patterns that tend to develop over time. Instead of constantly playing catch-up with pain and tension, massage can become part of your ongoing self-care routine.

Some people come every week or two. Others find that once a month works beautifully for them. There isn't one “right” schedule—the goal is to find a rhythm that supports your body, your life, and your wellbeing.

For me, therapeutic massage isn't just about working on a sore muscle. It's about creating a space where you can slow down, receive, reconnect, and give your body some of the care it so generously gives you every day.

Your body is the home you live in every single day. It deserves some regular love and attention. 💜

If your body has been asking for some TLC, I'd love to help.

To learn more about Therapeutic Massage or book a session, visit www.CarySkywalker.com.

September 16, 2026 /Cary Skywalker
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I’ll Be at the Fog Town Hoedown! 🤠🌈

September 16, 2026 by Cary Skywalker

I’m excited to share that I’ll be bringing my Therapeutic Massage practice to the Fog Town Hoedown in San Francisco this October! Hosted by the Bay Area Queer Dance Society, Fog Town Hoedown is a queer country-western dance conference happening October 29–November 1, 2026, at the Holiday Inn San Francisco Golden Gateway. It’s a whole weekend celebrating queer dance, community, connection, and joy, with classes for all levels, social dancing, and an amazing lineup of instructors and artists.

If you know me or have experienced my work, you know that I believe our bodies deserve care—not just when something hurts, but as part of how we support ourselves and stay connected to our bodies. And dancers can ask A LOT of their bodies! I’ll be onsite offering shorter Therapeutic Massage sessions throughout the weekend, giving you an opportunity to take a little time to release tension, restore, and give your body some love between classes and dancing.

I’m especially happy to be part of this event because queer community and creating spaces where people can feel safe, welcomed, and fully themselves is deeply important to me—both personally and professionally. My Alameda practice incorporates Therapeutic Massage, Energy Healing, Cranio-Sacral Therapy, Transpersonal Hypnotherapy, TRE, and other holistic mind-body approaches.

So if you’re heading to the Hoedown, come find me and let me help your hardworking dancing body feel a little more fabulous! 🤠💜

I can’t wait to be part of this new queer dance tradition and share some therapeutic touch, care, and community with all of you.

Learn more about the Fog Town Hoedown and get your tickets at BAQDS.org.

September 16, 2026 /Cary Skywalker
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Joining The Alameda Pride Board 🌈

September 16, 2026 by Cary Skywalker

I have some exciting news that I’m really happy to share with you: I’ve joined the Alameda Pride Board!

For many years, being part of and supporting the LGBTQIA+ community has been an important part of both my personal life and my work as a healing arts practitioner. As an LGBTQIA+ person myself, I know how meaningful it can be to have spaces where you feel safe, welcomed, seen, and genuinely cared for. Through my practice, I’ve had the privilege of working with many queer, trans, and non-binary people and creating a space where people can show up exactly as they are. After more than 23 years of doing this work, I’ve come to understand even more deeply that healing and wellbeing don’t happen in isolation—we need connection, community, belonging, and people who have our backs.

Joining Alameda Pride feels like a natural next step for me. I’ve lived and worked in Alameda for many years, and I want to become more actively involved in caring for and strengthening our local LGBTQIA+ community. I’m especially passionate about uplifting LGBTQIA+ community members, creating opportunities for connection and belonging, and supporting our local queer-owned and LGBTQIA+-affirming small businesses. There are so many wonderful people, artists, healers, entrepreneurs, families, and small businesses in our community, and I’d love to help create more opportunities for us to see one another, support one another, and thrive together.

Pride in the Park — October 10th!

One of the big events coming up is Alameda Pride in the Park on Saturday, October 10th, from 12–6 PM at Chochenyo Park. It’s a free, all-ages, family-friendly celebration with entertainment, food trucks, a Kidz Zone, games, and—of course—lots of fabulous local vendors!

And this is where I’d especially love to spread the word to my fellow queer-owned and queer-allied small business owners:

Vendor opportunities are currently available!

If you have a queer-owned business, LGBTQIA+-affirming business, creative project, organization, healing practice, or other offering that you'd love to share with our community, I encourage you to consider applying for a vendor booth at Pride in the Park. This is such a wonderful opportunity to get your work in front of the Alameda community while being part of a day centered around connection, visibility, celebration, and support for LGBTQIA+ people and our allies.

Learn more and apply to be a vendor for Pride in the Park

Supporting LGBTQIA+ Youth

Another part of Alameda Pride that I’m particularly excited to support is QTAC — the Queer Teen Alameda Center.

If you’re a parent, caregiver, or supportive adult of a queer or trans young person in grades 6–12, I want you to know that there is a local space specifically created for LGBTQ+ youth. QTAC provides a confidential, supportive environmentwhere teens can connect with other young people, socialize, participate in activities, make art, play games, and simply have a place where they can be themselves. Programming takes place Fridays during the school year from 6–9 PM.

I think this kind of space matters enormously. Having access to community, supportive adults, and other young people who understand something of what you're experiencing can make such a difference. Alameda Pride and QTAC are helping create that space right here in our community.

Learn more about QTAC

Come Out on the Island!

And if you’re looking for a way to meet more of your local LGBTQIA+ community, Out on the Island (OOTI) is another wonderful Alameda Pride program. OOTI is a monthly community gathering held on the first Friday of each month, with locations and activities changing from month to month. It’s a chance to get out, meet people, socialize, and build those connections that make a community feel like community.

For example, the upcoming October gathering will be Friday, October 2nd at Park Station, 1200 Park Street, beginning at 6 PM.

See upcoming Alameda Pride events

Why This Matters to Me

I believe that Pride is more than one month, one event, or one parade. It’s about showing up for one another throughout the year. It’s about creating spaces where people feel safe enough to be themselves, supporting our young people, celebrating our differences, lifting up local businesses and community members, and making sure that LGBTQIA+ people know they have a place here.

I’m really honored to have the opportunity to contribute my time, heart, experience, and energy to Alameda Pride—and I’m excited about what we can continue creating together.

If you’re part of the Alameda LGBTQIA+ community, an ally, a local business owner, a parent of a queer or trans young person, or simply someone who wants to get more connected, I hope you’ll come join us. There is room for all of us here. 💗🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

September 16, 2026 /Cary Skywalker
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Referral Program

December 07, 2023 by Cary Skywalker

Word of mouth referrals sustain my ability to do the work that I do!


If you think my work might benefit any of your friends or family, consider sharing the love by referring them to my practice.

Not only will they be treated with respect and care while I assist them in gaining relief from their ailments and enhancing their well being, but they will save $10 on their first session (when they enter the code NEW10) because of your referral.

As a Thank You, when they show up, YOU will also receive a $10 credit towards your next session!

You are welcome to refer as many folks as you like as they will add up and earn you heavily discounted or FREE sessions with me!

Make sure they give your name while making their appointment, so you get the credit :).

Easiest ways to share:

  • Share a testimonial (with your friends or in a local group) about your experince working with me on your favorite social media platform and tag me in it 

  • Forward my website to someone you think may benefit

  • Share my contact info with your loved ones in a text or email www.caryskywalker.com 510-485-4852 caryskywalker@gmail.com

  • Direct folks to my social media pages                                    

    facebook https://www.facebook.com/caryskywalkerhealing
    instagram https://www.instagram.com/caryskywalker/

    Thank you all for continued support of my business over the last couple decades, it means the world to me!

December 07, 2023 /Cary Skywalker
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Embracing a new change...

October 04, 2021 by Cary Skywalker

I would like to share that I am changing my name from Ranjot Singh Skywalker to Cary Aaron Skywalker Knott. 

For those of you who have known me for a while, you know this is not the first time I have gone through a name change. I would like to discuss my reasoning for this publicly, even though it is a very personal subject for me. I feel it may help folks get to know me and my experience a bit better and possibly help others be able to hold some more compassion for other folks who have gone through, or will go through, some kind of a name change as well. 

There are several reasons I have decided to change my name. I will explore a few below including my experience as a transgender individual, becoming more aware of cultural sensitivities & honoring the connection to my family.

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Transgender Experience

Some of you may know this already and some of you may not, but I am a transgender individual. I was born female and transitioned to male roughly 16 years ago. I currently identify with he/him or they/them pronouns. 


Name changing is something that a lot of trans/non-binary/genderqueer folks go through as we are exploring, working to own and be respected for who we truly are. We all have our own journey with it and it can look very different for each person. Sometimes it's a very obvious and clear cut decision and sometimes it can be much more confusing and feel like a struggle. 


For me it was a strange, yet liberating experience the first time I changed my name. I wanted a name that sounded more masculine to help me embody my new gender expression. I went back and forth for months trying to figure it out and finally settled on Corey, (without much internal enthusiasm) probably because it sounded similar to my birth name but it also felt sufficiently non-gender descript. It had no real meaning outside of that for me though. I was fairly content with Corey for about 7 years until the next step approached... 





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Cultural Sensitivity

In the beginning, when I first adopted this next name it felt right because I was going through a level of spiritual awakening and it was the first time a name truly meant something to me. Ranjot is translated to "Bringer of Light" and Singh means "Lion of God". 

I was training as a Kundalini Yoga Instructor when I received this name and this training was opening me up to profound levels of physical, mental, emotional and spiritual awareness and growth. One of the things I learned about was sound current and how using our voice to chant, sing and speak or hearing others chant, sing or speak can have positive effects throughout our entire system. Learning about how sound current works and hearing that if I adopted this spiritual name (Ranjot Singh) that was given to me, and spoke it aloud referring to myself on a regular basis and heard others speaking this name to me, I would more easily be able to embody the vibration of what the name means. It has been my passion for a long time to assist others in discovering & expanding their own internal light and to connect with the light of universal consciousness, as well as fostering this for myself, so I was honored to receive this name. I felt it was a perfect fit to assist me in continuing my life's journey and purpose. 

I think Ranjot Singh is a beautiful name and can tell that it has assisted me throughout the years. However, I have been increasingly more uncomfortable with calling myself by a name that belongs to a culture that I do not belong to. I greatly appreciate the teachings and am so thankful that they have been shared with me. I will continue to hold them in my heart and practice them throughout my life. I have given this a lot of thought and am now feeling that at this point, it does not feel respectful, as a white person, to have Ranjot Singh as my name. Which leads me to make another choice...





Family

I am somewhat surprised by myself as to what first name I have chosen to move forward with. It feels a bit uncomfortable to start saying out loud and hearing others call me this again, but also very much like coming home to a deeper connection and exploration within myself and my family, while still bringing through what I have learned about myself along the way. 

Cary is an adaptation of my birth name in a more gender neutral form, but still carries the same meanings to it, including "pure, pleasant stream, free man, the dark one, movement". Not sure if I identify with being pure or the dark one, but definitely interesting to look at, haha! It feels right to start to get to know the name I was born with in a new exploratory way and begin to embrace it with love and appreciation. 

I have added Aaron as my middle name because the meaning is similar to Ranjot "Light Bringer" but it's roots are from a culture I am actually connected with, instead of one I have only learned from. 

I have kept Skywalker as part of my last name (Maybe someday I'll be comfortable sharing publicly why this is important to me, but no it's not because of Star Wars, though the jokes can be fun! ), along with reincorporating the family last name I was born with, Knott. I didn't like it when I was younger because people made fun of it a lot, but that is neither here nor there. I don't live physically close to anyone in my family of origin anymore and I miss them all dearly. I feel it is important to have “official” connection with them at this point in my life for many reasons. My Mom, Dad, Sister and Niece are all kind, compassionate, loving individuals and I am proud to be a part of this family and happy to share the name with them once again. 


Cary Aaron Skywalker Knott... it feels right, but I’m still getting used to it. 

 

Not everyone puts as much emphasis or thought into names as I am within this writing and honestly it's day to day with me as to how important I really feel it is for myself. I find more importance on how I'm showing up in this world and what I'm able to make of this life while I am here. But changing my name is something I have control over, so I will exercise my choice as I see fit.   

It sometimes feels a little ridiculous to me that I have changed my name so many times. Then I remember to send my self a bit more compassion and to do my best at letting go of the worry around how others may perceive me for making yet another change. 

Throughout this experience, I have been striving to do better for myself & others and to express myself authentically along the way. I want to honor, appreciate and learn from other cultures without disrespecting them. I also want to respect myself, embrace more of who I am, connect with my family of origin & teach myself that how I identify can be a fluid experience and know that that is ok. It's been an emotional, awkward and scary process each time I have gone through a name change & I doubt I'll ever do it again, but it has also been a very humbling, reflective experience full of love.  

Thanks for reading 💜, 

Cary

October 04, 2021 /Cary Skywalker
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